Our children are born to be their own, individual, authentic selves - yet when they express their individuality, they are labeled with one or more of a variety of mental, emotional, and/or behavioral disorders. Once a child is ‘diagnosed’ the unthinkable begins to happen - we lose the child we were so excited to bring into this world. These children are made to feel as if they are broken. They are anything but. Our children deserve better.

The states with the lowest per capita income are the states with the most children diagnosed.

1 in 5 - or over 6 million - children, in the United States, between the ages of 3 and 17, have been diagnosed with some form of behavioral or emotional disorder. The next step is typically the writing of a prescription for one of many psychotropic medications. These medications come with an extensive list of dangerous side effects - some immediate and some long term. Parents are rarely told of these dangers. I was never told. No one told me that Adderall was in the same controlled substance class of drugs as cocaine. No one told me that these drugs provide an immediate high and then a drastic drop-off after only 4 hours. No one told me that extended use of these drugs can lead to a complete psychic break resulting in acts of violence. No one told me that the global preference of this disorder is 5% yet, in some states, nearly 15% of the children have been diagnosed and/or medicated for this disorder. No one told me that the Department of Education rewards school districts with an additional $400 for each child they can label with some type of behavioral or learning disorder and since there are no medical tests for ADHD, this is the easiest label to attach to a child.

Observation Diagnosis 

In most cases, a teacher will suggest to a parent that there may be a ‘problem’ and parents then bring their concerns to the child’s pediatrician.  The classroom teacher may bring the school psychologist into the mix and request that the psychologist observe the child’s interactions in the classroom.  Unfortunately, teachers surveyed scored an “F” on the Knowledge of Attention Deficit Disorders Scale (KADDS) (Small, 2003).  To meet the criteria for an Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder diagnosis in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5, 2016 & Pizzorno & Murray, 2011):

Children must exhibit the symptoms for a period of six months or more.

The symptoms must present to a greater degree than other children of the same age.    

Six or more symptoms in the hyperactivity-impulsivity categories

Hyperactivity:  Fidgets/squirms in seat; Talks non-stop; Dash around – touching or playing with everything in sight; Be constantly in motion; Have trouble sitting still during story time-dinner-or-school; Has difficulty doing quiet tasks or activities.

Impulsive:  Very impatient; Blurts out inappropriate comments; Shows emotions without restraint; Has difficulty waiting their turn or waiting for things they want; Acts without regard for consequences; Often interrupts other’s conversations or activities.

WHAT WE ARE TOLD WE NEED TO BELIEVE ABOUT THIS DISORDER

Allopathic Perspective – Cause 

  • It’s genetic – You were born with it – there is nothing you can do about it

  • Dopamine & Serotonin imbalance - 2 of the over 50 neurotransmitters related to mental health issues – no simple way to measure their levels

  • Brain Injury or Dysfunction

  • Prefrontal Cortex

  • Hypothalamus-Pituitary-Adrenal (APA) axis

  • Transport system malfunction

  • Tryptophan & Alanine imbalance

  • Premature Delivery

  • Low Birth Weight (Causes of ADHD, 2021)

The Real Cost and Effect of this Diagnosis

Financial Cost

As of 2016, the average annual cost of treatment for a child diagnosed with ADHD was $15,036 or $42.5 billion each year (Medical Costs, 2022).  This was broken down as:

  • Doctor visits:              $ 2,700

  • Medications:               $    188

  • Therapy:                     $ 2,000

  • Accidents/Injuries:     $    290

  • Academic Support:     $    686

  • Lost Belongings:        $    118

  • Child Care:                 $  3,000         more than traditional childcare

  • Lost Income:               $10,000

These numbers do not include the costs to the State if the child is receiving Medicaid benefits, or if the child has received co-morbid diagnosis and additional therapies are being utilized. 

Effects of Allopathic Treatment of Symptoms

  • Once medicated for 5 yrs. or more, more than 64% of the respondent adolescents continued to take one or more medications for ADHD and co-morbid diagnoses (Walker et al., 2011)

  • Medications come with a long list of side effects including death (Boorady, 2016)

  • Lifetime Label – Discrimination – Treated Differently (Bernardi et al., 2012)

  • Low Self-Esteem (Mueller et al., 2012)

  • Inability to Accept Responsibility (Mueller et al., 2012)

  • From 1992 to 2017, at least 37 school shootings and/or school-related acts of violence have been committed by those taking or withdrawing from psychiatric drugs resulting in 175 wounded and 82 killed (cchrint.org, 2022)

Allopathic Treatments 

  • Psychotropic Medication

  • Behavioral Therapy

  • Parent Education (Treatment of ADHD, 2021)

A New Understanding – The Real Cause 

  • Dietary imbalance (Stevenson, 2006 & Western Diet, 2011)

  • Excess sugar consumption (Jaslow, 2012 & Kim and Chang, 2011)

  • Nutritional deficiencies (Kamal, 2014)

  • Lack of physical activity (Young, 2014)

  • Exposure to artificial flavors & colors (Arnold, et al, 2012; Childhood Hyperactive Behavior, 2010 & Weiss, 2012)

  • Pesticide residue on fruits & vegetables (Bouchard et al., 2010)

  • Pesticide & pharmaceutical residue in local water supplies (Bouchard et al., 2010)

  • Genetically modified organisms in the food supply (Swanson, 2013)

  • Chemicals in personal care products (Randall, 2020)

These toxins - mixed with our children’s desire to have their authenticity recognized - can lead to many of the behaviors used to diagnose ADHD as well as many other disorders. So what’s a parent to do?

  Today’s authentic children are more than just a new generation, they come here with a complete new mindset. They have no intention of following the old ways. They are here to show us that those old systems need to change.

You’ve seen it. Maybe you thought your child was just being rebellious. There is so much more to it.

Do you have any idea how incredibly powerful your child is?

Do you recognize any of those behaviors in yourself, either when you were growing up or maybe even now?

Do you know how powerful you truly are?

Your child is an authentic spiritual being born with a specific purpose – something they ‘have’ to do in this lifetime.

As a parent, it is our job to help them identify that purpose and then find their best way to achieve it.

“Tell Me - I Forget

Show Me - I Remember

Involve Me - I Understand”

— Chinese Proverb

What Does it Mean

to be Authentic? 

  1. Genuine or Real

  2. An origin supported by unquestionable evidence

  3. Representing one’s true nature or beliefs; true to oneself

  4. Entitled to acceptance or belief; reliable; trustworthy


Are All Kids Authentic?

All children are born knowing who they are, as spiritual beings, and knowing that they came to this lifetime for a specific reason.  Today’s authentic children are born meeting every aspect of the definitions above.  They are meant to, and are capable of, living and teaching others how to live authentically, if they are given the chance. 

Decades ago, very few children lived their authenticity as most were taught to respond to society’s expectations.  This generation of authentic children are more than willing to stand firm in their knowing, ready to demonstrate what it means to truly be authentic – to live in non-judgment, to live without labels, and to show everyone how to tap into the Universal knowledge available to all.  Will you give them the opportunity?


Today’s Parents

Individuals born, beginning in the mid to late 1980’s, are now being called upon to consciously acknowledge their own authentic nature as they begin to recognize the authenticity of their own children and the young people around them.  As a parent, there is an innate desire to demonstrate a conscious awareness for your children – even if you have yet to identify the direction of your own path. 

If you are blessed to be the parent or grandparent of one or more of these authentic children, who is feeling thoroughly confused by their demands, you are not alone!  The key to nurturing your authentic child is learning, directly from them, what makes them tick.  Most of today’s parents just need a little help to understand  (1) what my child’s behaviors are trying to tell me and (2) how to involve them in the solution making process.


Why Do Authentic Children Rebel?

What kind of rebellious behaviors can I expect to see from my authentic child?

  • They refuse to show respect – unless it is shown to them.

  • They refuse to show blind obedience.

  • They are naturally opinionated – they want to be heard.

  • They are fearless and filled with confidence.

If you recognized one or more of the above behaviors, you likely have an authentic child!

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Are You Ready to Join the Movement?

Are you ready to demonstrate your authenticity for children and for the world as a whole? 

Now is your chance. 

Contact me to schedule a time to talk.  Invite me to your group or school to find out

how you can support these children as they grow.